What!?!?!?!

So someone says to me recently " husbands cheat if they don't get enough sex." What?! No hunny husbands who cheat do it because they have no self control. As the flagrant feminist that i am i can not let this statement go ignored. First of all if you are blaming yourself or your lack of sex on someone cheating get your head out of your you know what... i can guarantee that even if you have sex everyday of the week that he is still contemplating other women in his head. It's not what is happening physically that makes someone cheat it's a heart issue. And if someone says "I have to look at other women if we haven't had sex in 3 days." something has gone totally dark in they're heart.
So to anyone reading this who has had this particular discussion with someone or who has heard it from your husband, don't give into the lie. Stand up for yourself tell you husband to grow up and be a man. And seriously if i hear a man ever utter anything sooo stupid i will punch you...
In closing let me just say, Phill thanks for being a good man and a smart one at that. you're the best man i could have gotten... Thank God i didn't end up with a boy in a mans body... And i think you're a great example to others. And to those who have been cheated on, there is hope and healing and its not your fault...